Newer definitions of success

Quite a few friends are getting married, and my parents are also on the hunt- Key elements that are considered success factors in this circus (by both sides):

1. Engineer / Doctor
2. 6 or approaching 7 Digit salary (per month .....hahahahah)
3. Own house
4. Sedan
5. Sibilings married and settled
6. MNC Job
7. US / Europe Job permits
8. Consistent 10 pointers
9. God's will (ya after all those above points, you think god will have a problem - ya right)

Extract from a leading book with respectable data collection and analysis

What Girls want from Guys (in order of importance / success factors)

1. Personality
2. Humor
3. Sensitivity
4. Brains

What Guys want from Girls (in order of importance / success factors)

1. Personality
2. Good Looks
3. Brains
4. Humor

suprising that the success factor set does not appear anywhere - hmm - Whatever!